This is for single people. God sees you. I see you. I love working with clients like you. I have a passion for working with young people because I want to help you get healthy so you can attract a healthy spouse. The goal is to marry one person, so you only need to find one. I know that some of us go on a lot of dates with different people before we find our spouse.
Be you. Be who God wants you to be. Have grit and persevere. God will help you. I will help you. Are you an introvert or an extrovert? How you get energized can significantly impact your marriage. The more similar you are and the more you agree, your marriage will be easier. Research tells us that shared values are one of the top 3 things that help couples succeed long-term.
Gottman research also tells us that the other top 2 things that help couples succeed long-term are communication and emotional safety. Do people feel safe with you? How are you at communicating? Work on yourself now so you can be the best catch that you can be. Believe you’re a good catch because then you’ll attract a good catch.
I’m so proud of you 20 & 30-somethings who are seeking counseling to improve yourselves and get healthy. Seeking help can ensure that you’re on the right path to finding the person of your dreams. Dating can be hard and it can be fun. Marriage can be hard and it can be great. It can be hard being single and it can be fun. Choose your hard. Your perspective can make all the difference.
Billions of people are in the world and God knows each of them by name. He knows you by name. God loves you and knows how many hairs are on your head. If you want to get married, I believe there’s a high chance you will. We don’t know God’s timeline, but it’ll happen. Ask God to lead and guide you through your dating journey. He loves to hear from you and answer your prayers. God loves to give good gifts to his children.