General Wellness

The Stress Cup Model: Stress, Regulation, and Rhythms of Rest in a Christian Framework

Lately in my work and personal life, I’ve been reflecting on the “Stress Cup” concept. The Stress Cup is a metaphor for the many daily stresses that impact our nervous system, much like water slowly filling a cup over time. When the cup becomes too full, it overflows—just as we can become overwhelmed, overstimulated, or […]

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Slow Down

James 1:19 tells us “…everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” In my work with couples, I often “joke” that I should carry two signs around with me. The first one would say “slow down.” The other sign would state “assume positive intent” (this will be for a

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When Faith Feels Heavy: Understanding Scrupulosity

Following one’s faith can be a challenge, no matter what. But if you find yourself experiencing excessive guilt or fear about sinning, having unwanted blasphemous thoughts, or feeling compelled to repeat prayers, confess sins over and over, seek constant reassurance, or mentally review your actions to ensure they are not sinful, you may be struggling

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